One-line definition
A bull is the third-party male role in a cuckold dynamic, invited to interact with the wife or girlfriend.
Full definition
In the cuckold / hotwife triangle, the bull is the invited third party. He interacts with the hotwife while the cuckold watches, is shut out, or is told about it afterwards. The usual image of him as stronger and more magnetic exists to heighten the cuckold’s humiliation or arousal. In practice, the bull is a full participant in the negotiation, since the triangle’s limits, safer-sex agreements, and privacy rules get settled with him in the room.
Common misconceptions
”The bull is an outsider who doesn’t need to negotiate.”
Wrong. A three-person dynamic needs a three-person negotiation, and an arrangement only two of them agreed to doesn’t bind the third.
Related terms
- Cuckold
- Cuckquean
- Hotwife
- Poly
- Negotiation